Comments on: The Unburdened Mind http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind A collection of Damn Interesting things Wed, 17 Mar 2010 00:31:54 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Frank G http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25897 Frank G Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:44:12 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25897 This link below proves again how good this article is from Alan. Talking about profiling this guy matches it all. Scary how deceiving this animal was on that show and showed his real face with the other two contestants, and yes you wonder why there was no screening in those days. http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/03/09/dating.game.killer.death/index.html?hpt=T2 Frank G This link below proves again how good this article is from Alan.

Talking about profiling this guy matches it all.
Scary how deceiving this animal was on that show and showed his real face with the other two contestants,
and yes you wonder why there was no screening in those days.

http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/03/09/dating.game.killer.death/index.html?hpt=T2

Frank G

]]> By: Bamby http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25888 Bamby Thu, 04 Mar 2010 00:44:25 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25888 I came searching for this article. Searching for answers. As i was swept off my feet by a man 26 yrs of age. Sending me flowers and cake, shopping sprees. The constant need to stay in lavish hotels, going from city to city, without planning. Impulsiveity. He changed his name adn occupation everywhere we went. I noticed it was to gain their trust, so that he could con them out of money. He was good. By this time we were engaged. I was frightened, and inlove. But i realized he was empty inside. The tears were fake, he had no real feelings for anyone, not even his own parents. He said he would never let me leave him, but when i did he never came searching for me. he had no guilt, no empathy, charismatic and calm. Not violent, and nothing seemed to phase him. i was attracted to how calm and collected he was. But as time passed, i noticed speech impediments, like his brain was working faster than his mouth, and no regrets. It was obvious to me he felt nothing real and lived an empty life, but i was also convinced that somehow beyond all that I was the only one that mattered. I fooled myslef and let him fool me. I had just lost my mother and needed this whirlwind he put me in, and the lavish lifestyle he provided. I am left now in such pain. Embarrased that i miss him. Embarrassed that i let him in. And just lost. I still have nightmares. But i no longer hate him. Because i saw the misery he lived with, its as if he knew he was living in hell because he felt nothing real. and when he did, it was very shortlived, and he would go back to the same restless jumpiness the next day, looking for another victim, incapable of telling one truth the twelve hours he was awake. I swear the 7 months i spent with him have traumatized me more than anything i have experienced. because he gave me so much and took so much more away. i wish i coud have a hidden camera with me on that journey. i saw things i hadnt seen in movies. i gave him up. hoping he would return. but reading this article and all the links before getting here i realize, he will walk this earth with no regrets and continue to ruin every relationship he encounters without even wanting to. I came searching for this article. Searching for answers. As i was swept off my feet by a man 26 yrs of age. Sending me flowers and cake, shopping sprees. The constant need to stay in lavish hotels, going from city to city, without planning. Impulsiveity. He changed his name adn occupation everywhere we went. I noticed it was to gain their trust, so that he could con them out of money. He was good. By this time we were engaged. I was frightened, and inlove. But i realized he was empty inside. The tears were fake, he had no real feelings for anyone, not even his own parents. He said he would never let me leave him, but when i did he never came searching for me. he had no guilt, no empathy, charismatic and calm. Not violent, and nothing seemed to phase him. i was attracted to how calm and collected he was. But as time passed, i noticed speech impediments, like his brain was working faster than his mouth, and no regrets. It was obvious to me he felt nothing real and lived an empty life, but i was also convinced that somehow beyond all that I was the only one that mattered. I fooled myslef and let him fool me. I had just lost my mother and needed this whirlwind he put me in, and the lavish lifestyle he provided. I am left now in such pain. Embarrased that i miss him. Embarrassed that i let him in. And just lost. I still have nightmares. But i no longer hate him. Because i saw the misery he lived with, its as if he knew he was living in hell because he felt nothing real. and when he did, it was very shortlived, and he would go back to the same restless jumpiness the next day, looking for another victim, incapable of telling one truth the twelve hours he was awake. I swear the 7 months i spent with him have traumatized me more than anything i have experienced. because he gave me so much and took so much more away. i wish i coud have a hidden camera with me on that journey. i saw things i hadnt seen in movies. i gave him up. hoping he would return. but reading this article and all the links before getting here i realize, he will walk this earth with no regrets and continue to ruin every relationship he encounters without even wanting to.

]]> By: Lyzbeth http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25816 Lyzbeth Wed, 17 Feb 2010 14:55:30 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25816 After taking that little test up there, I think anybody could have psycotic tendancy's! I know I do, but I get really pissed when it comes to my kids and someone is picking on them or trying to harm them. Of course the sad thing is, that's usually my oldest son! Finally coming to grips with the reality of it all now. Not depressed and cunfused anymore. I did let my guard down for a few days but I am back on track now. Just trying to make sure my family is protected and keep my distance from him. He claims he's trying to get help, I truly hope so, but alas we won't know till it's all over and the fat lady sings! I guess it wouldn't be any different having a son for a psycopath than being married to one, either way, they're probly out to hurt you or manipulate you. I do have a question???? Can they feel love or is it just a learned responce to get what they want? I love him he's my son, but now I am wondering (or holding on to some shred of hope) if he ever truly loved me??? thanks again for listening lyz After taking that little test up there, I think anybody could have psycotic tendancy’s! I know I do, but I get really pissed when it comes to my kids and someone is picking on them or trying to harm them. Of course the sad thing is, that’s usually my oldest son! Finally coming to grips with the reality of it all now. Not depressed and cunfused anymore. I did let my guard down for a few days but I am back on track now. Just trying to make sure my family is protected and keep my distance from him. He claims he’s trying to get help, I truly hope so, but alas we won’t know till it’s all over and the fat lady sings! I guess it wouldn’t be any different having a son for a psycopath than being married to one, either way, they’re probly out to hurt you or manipulate you. I do have a question???? Can they feel love or is it just a learned responce to get what they want? I love him he’s my son, but now I am wondering (or holding on to some shred of hope) if he ever truly loved me???
thanks again for listening
lyz

]]> By: cerise333 http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25800 cerise333 Mon, 15 Feb 2010 09:13:15 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25800 oh sorry duh.. moderatly psychopath... whatever still same sh** haha oh sorry duh.. moderatly psychopath… whatever still same sh** haha

]]> By: cerise333 http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25799 cerise333 Mon, 15 Feb 2010 09:09:52 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25799 on the other hand I do believe I have certain psychotic behaviours that might make a psychologist (not sure if thats the right spelling) think I am a little crazy =P haha but you can blame my genetics for that since my brother I believe is probably an agressive psychotic ... he has gone from doing violent things to doing just reckless stupid things and still showing no remorse or emotion about it eventhough he's ruining his own life... he is a little pathetic if you ask me but it might come in the genes afterall....anyway... at least Im not like him I dont go so far as to take drugs or lie or do other things that might be considered as harmful to either myself or society so I think Im pretty good myself ... but I do know someone who fits the description perfectly except for the part about maybe violence and he is a lawyer lol, he sure is a violent creepy bastard he is mentally violent... loves to play mind games with people, always trying to put the shame on others and blaming others for his own lack of responsability... sure politics most have the biggest amount of psychopaths there =P on the other hand I do believe I have certain psychotic behaviours that might make a psychologist (not sure if thats the right spelling) think I am a little crazy =P haha but you can blame my genetics for that since my brother I believe is probably an agressive psychotic … he has gone from doing violent things to doing just reckless stupid things and still showing no remorse or emotion about it eventhough he’s ruining his own life… he is a little pathetic if you ask me but it might come in the genes afterall….anyway… at least Im not like him I dont go so far as to take drugs or lie or do other things that might be considered as harmful to either myself or society so I think Im pretty good myself … but I do know someone who fits the description perfectly except for the part about maybe violence and he is a lawyer lol, he sure is a violent creepy bastard he is mentally violent… loves to play mind games with people, always trying to put the shame on others and blaming others for his own lack of responsability… sure politics most have the biggest amount of psychopaths there =P

]]> By: cerise333 http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25798 cerise333 Mon, 15 Feb 2010 09:02:07 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25798 Im moderately psychotic according to this test (sorry if my spelling is not perfect...) anyway... I somehow cannot ever believe in mental illness I mean are they even real or are they just a way for other people who cannot understand the mind of someone who's psychotic to label them instead of understanding their problems maybe?... I dunno... I guess if you had many other "mental disorders" along with being psychotic it would be awful since you could turn to crime and whatnot... fortunately Im one of those persons who doesnt believe in harming self or others so... couldnt really care less how people see the psychotic personality as because I think its just a way to turn their backs on the real issue at hand... understanding the reasons of these people doing what theyre doing... they just label them with whatever mental disorder they find... Im moderately psychotic according to this test (sorry if my spelling is not perfect…) anyway… I somehow cannot ever believe in mental illness I mean are they even real or are they just a way for other people who cannot understand the mind of someone who’s psychotic to label them instead of understanding their problems maybe?… I dunno… I guess if you had many other “mental disorders” along with being psychotic it would be awful since you could turn to crime and whatnot… fortunately Im one of those persons who doesnt believe in harming self or others so… couldnt really care less how people see the psychotic personality as because I think its just a way to turn their backs on the real issue at hand… understanding the reasons of these people doing what theyre doing… they just label them with whatever mental disorder they find…

]]> By: Frank G http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25784 Frank G Sat, 13 Feb 2010 06:08:49 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25784 Your welcome Lyz, Believe in your strength, and keep your spirit up. Frank G. Your welcome Lyz,

Believe in your strength, and keep your spirit up.

Frank G.

]]> By: Lyzbeth http://www.damninteresting.com/the-unburdened-mind#comment-25774 Lyzbeth Fri, 12 Feb 2010 14:23:18 +0000 http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=936#comment-25774 Frank G. Thanks for the advice, and I do agree with you. I had night mares all night and I feel worse today than I did yesterday. And I plan on staying completely away from him and keeping my family away from him also. As I see it if I were to let him back in my home knowing WHAT he is that would be grounds for his counslor to call social services on me. As he should! I still don't know how to process all this I never thought in a million years I would be faced with something like this. thanks for listening lyz Frank G. Thanks for the advice, and I do agree with you. I had night mares all night and I feel worse today than I did yesterday. And I plan on staying completely away from him and keeping my family away from him also. As I see it if I were to let him back in my home knowing WHAT he is that would be grounds for his counslor to call social services on me. As he should! I still don’t know how to process all this I never thought in a million years I would be faced with something like this.
thanks for listening
lyz

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