Comments on: Silent Lucidity https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/ Fascinating true stories from science, history, and psychology since 2005 Sun, 11 Sep 2022 02:46:33 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: jobu https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-74498 Sun, 11 Sep 2022 02:46:33 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-74498 I lucid dream about 1/3 of the time. I often dream about places that I have been to in previous dream. There are places I have been to 5 or 6 times before; places I have never been to in real life, but I know well. It’s great!

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By: JarvisLoop https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-73700 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 20:01:35 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-73700 Flackbash:

Sorry, I have never heard of that.

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By: Flackbash https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-25964 Thu, 08 Apr 2010 19:14:27 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-25964 I recently found out about Damn Interesting, and I”m reading through all the articles. Great stuff!

I’ve only had two lucid dreams that I can recall. In one I was flying, in the other, fornicating.

Has anyone tried the device with strobing lights that you sleep with? I’m curious whether it works or not.

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By: Alucin Veritas https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-25613 Sat, 02 Jan 2010 10:25:35 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-25613 I occasionally experience such lucid dreams. Commonly, my attempts to fly are odd. I end up barely affected by gravity or air resistance and am essentially bouncing around barely able to control direction. I’ve also tried invisibility with mixed results. I also seem to have a few recurring dream “maps”, each with their own consistent inconsistencies. Recently two maps have been added. A gray institution with halls that, while straight, somehow warp between locations. It seemed like a school. The other is a cityscape. It was too vast and complex, and I got lost due to my odd quasi-flight.

I’m a little more interested in dreams that match real-life events, before the events actually happen.

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By: jackmagic https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-25481 Mon, 16 Nov 2009 13:43:45 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-25481 wayno@oz has just stolen my thunder slightly, my nightmares tend to also stop becoming nightmares when i realise i can change things, but it then tends to make the dream slip into a full fledged medievil battle (which i enjoy immensely)

my first memory of this is the common ‘flying’ dream, i was standing on the ledge of a large building (i still remember the panorama in great detail) and fell, realised that i was dreaming – and then went for a little fly! very exhilerating. or even a similar feeling but better spelt.

although through the years i have always had at very least a passive control over these dreams – the strangest thing happened once when i was dreaming of being on a canal barge watching a fox run alongside on the bank…..at that point i became lucid – and regardless of all my trying, the fox became quite scary and with intelligent eyes that bore into me, aware of what i was doing in my lucid state and mocking me for it!! he also became more human and was now running along the boat but on two legs. i only woke up when it leapt to the boat and into me!

to give you an image of the impression the anthropmorthic fox gave off, see the mighty boosh’s CRACK FOX

told you it was scary : )

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By: wayno@oz https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-24060 Thu, 05 Mar 2009 01:13:47 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-24060 I have lucid dreams all the time! It first started at about age 12 when i realized i can stop a nightmare by ascertaining i was dreaming. Great fun to grab a vampire by the scruff of the neck and belt him one. One of the greatest discoveries of my life. Since that day i have been able to fly in my dreams, almost always, regardless of what the actual dream was about. its just a matter of realizing i was dreaming and invoking the thought of flying. On occasions i have been having a day nap and could not wake myself, even though i was trying to. The senasations i was having where of weightlessness and a very fast and powerful heartbeat. This in turn caused a massive pressure in my skull which in turn evetually popped – i then awoke. I guess the worst of these dreams are the falling or being thrown from a great distance, i know im dreaming but that doesnt stop the impending thought of doom. My stomach tenses as if im in freefall and then BANG! i hit the ground and wake up! Its pleasing to know this is a very real phenomenon.

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By: dpocius https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-23868 Wed, 28 Jan 2009 07:12:46 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-23868 Recently I have been exercising a degree of control over my dreams. Not full control, but enough to enjoy the trip. Oddly, most of my more memorable dreams recently have been about work since I retired a couple of years ago. I was one of the lucky ones that was actually able to retire voluntarily from a high-tech Silicon Valley company that had managed to avoid getting totally screwed up and still respected employees as adult people to some degree. So, most of my recent “work” dreams have to do with the “unbearable lightness of being” that comes with a voluntary and well-timed end to a reasonably well-behaved career. Mostly I wander around checking out the goings-on in an increasingly-detached fashion in a building increasing in size and complexity, curiously like a shopping mall being remodeled.

The flying sensations are much like the feeling I get swimming underwater. As a kid, I enjoyed the ability to maneuver underwater in 3 dimensions with 6 axes of freedom for as long as I could hold my breath. This has carried over into dreaming where I find aerial swimming an efficient way to travel through crowded hallways at about 7 to 8 feet of altitude (AGL). A real time-saver.

Someone mentioned losing teeth in dreams. Occasionally I will dream most of my teeth are detached in my mouth, feeling like a mouth full of gravel I can’t spit out. Very annoying.

Occasionally I’ve invented things in my dreams. My wife swears I woke up one night knowing how to do head transplants, but I don’t remember that. The only one I can remember at the moment is a double tissue box, a package design with full-size tissues on one end and smaller ones in a separate compartment at the other end, giving the user a choice of sizes depending on the mission. Anyone care to take this idea to product development?

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By: Cyber Rodent https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-23806 Mon, 19 Jan 2009 02:32:56 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-23806 I have been a lurker on this site since last year when I discovered it, but this topic (albeit a bit old), has been just too fascinating to put off, and I have decided to join the fray.

Does anybody else experience what I describe as “the drop”. When dozing just before actually going to sleep, I have occasionally felt a sensation as though myself (or the bed) just suddenly dropped about a foot straight down then stopped (a variation on this can be a perception of a sudden shaking movement – as though one were suddenly grabbed by the shoulders and shaken back and forth, except of course, I’m horizontal, not vertical at the time). It’s quite a shock and tends to make me suddenly wide awake again.

I have very limited experience of lucid dreaming, in so much as I can fairly often recognize that I am dreaming (usually when things get too surreal to be believable), but have only been able to vaguely steer the course of the dream on a few occasions. Most often I tend to wake very soon after discovering that I am dreaming – although this can be helpful in that over the years I have learned to exit a nightmare upon recognizing it for what it is (I just think to myself “this is too nasty, I wish to wake up now – and I do – sort of a dream equivalent to the holodeck command “end program”).

My experience of flying is somewhat dismal. I can leap great distances on occasion, and can sort of hover (oddly enough by pressing down on the air at my sides with my hands…), but any attempts at actual flight are limited to short distances as the weight of my legs inevitably drags me down. This (and other’s comments about references to “floating” or “treading water”), leads me to wonder if our concept of flying in dreams is based in some way on our experiences of swimming. Our brain has to construct the virtual world of our dreams using the experiences of the real world that we have accumulated (hence why people born blind or deaf have no visual or hearing content in their dreams respectively), and since most of us have no actual experience of flying (at least under our own control – I don’t think passenger planes count), the nearest analogue (in terms of sensation) that the brain has to work with, is our experience in water. Getting back to my heavy legged flying style, I have always been a rotten swimmer, and whenever I have tried floating (even with assistance), my legs have always pulled me down (hence my flying style is similarly cramped in the virtual world). Anyone with experiences that could lend support, or disprove this [admittedly spur of the moment] hypothesis?

Two other interesting observations on the dream state:
Our sense of time is completely different. While research tells us that most dreaming (or at least REM) periods only last a few minutes at most, I can recall dreams in which days or even months of virtual time have elapsed.
Our emotional responses can be completely different in the dream state (eg. One can be completely terrified by something that in real life is completely harmless – such as an egg).

Incidentally, I tend to dream in a mix of both first -person (in which I am me), and more cinematic third person (in which I am seeing myself from another vantage point). Anyone else do this?

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By: Mirage_GSM https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-23092 Fri, 17 Oct 2008 08:31:49 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-23092 Great article, great stories!
I rarely dream at all – or at least I can rarely remember them when I wake up. Even if I do most dreams are gone by the time I get to the bathroom or even out of bed.
I vaguely remember a few recurring themes, like teeth falling out (I’m surprised nobody mentioned this one. I thought it was pretty common.) or the proverbial wet dream.
The upside is that I also very rarely have nightmares, and from the little I remember about them, I don’t think I’ve ever really been afraid in a dream. Yes, I might be chased by some monster or badguy or somesuch, but the feelings I remember are not fear but annoyance or frustration, when I can’t seem to shake them no mattaer what I do. I don’t have enough control over the drem to stop running though.

[quote]I think my lucid dreaming ability is enhanced by daydreaming as I fall asleep. I am aware when I start to think crazy dream-like things as I fall asleep. Also, if I wake up mid-dream, I try to recall as much as possible of the dream as soon as possible. I practice recalling in my mind what I would have done if I had been lucid. [/quote]

I also used to do this when falling asleep, but I don’t think I’ve ever had a dream that had any connection to my pre-sleep daydreams.

[quote]I have another dream question. Many times I have gone to bed thinking about a particularly difficult math problem, or computer algorithm I was trying to write, subsequently dreamed about it, and solved it during my dream. When I wake up, the solution is still running around in my head and all I have to do it write it down and verify it. Is this common? [/quote]

One of the most important discoveries in chemistry was made during a dream:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friedrich_August_Kekul%C3%A9_von_Stradonitz#Benzene

[quote]I still get similar episodes like that, but since living and sleeping in the same bed with my girlfriend, the content of the dream is fortuitously reversed. In my current dreams I’m cheating on my girlfriend. This usually results in a wet dream (which is the good part – provided I can remember the orgasm) but when I awake I am overcome with a horrific sense of guilt (which sadly ruins the experience). I have twice before begun confessing to my girlfriend sleeping beside me, telling her how sorry and stupid I am, but managed both times to catch myself before she woke. [/quote]

I’ve had such dreams before, and no matter how much I’ve been in love with a girl at the time, the dream would invariably feature either a stranger or some girl I knew but would never dream about starting something with (well obviously I would dream, but you know what I mean…) Those dreams dramatically decreased in frequency when I was in a relationship, but I probably wouldn’t have had pangs of conscience about it anyway. I knew they were dreams with a snowball’s chance in hell of becoming reality.

[quote]About a year before I gained that ability, I started a dream journal, and spent about fifteen minutes every morning typing out any dreams I had the night before in as much detail as possible. After a few months, my general desire to remember details made me a little more conscious during dreams, and as time went on, I eventually became conscious enough to actually participate in them. [/quote]

I might actually try that, but I don’t think it will help much. I probably would have something to write in that journal once a month at most…

My inability to dream has a nice side-effect, though: I never awaken at night. I go to bed and sleep until my alarm clock is ringing. When my GF moved in with me, I was surprised to learn that she woke up two or three times during the night. Actually I didn’t notice until she told me, because, you know, I was sleeping ;-) Until then I’d thought sleeping without interruption was normal, but I’ve since learned that it is more likely the exception.

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By: somethingawful https://www.damninteresting.com/silent-lucidity/#comment-21935 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 21:13:40 +0000 https://www.damninteresting.com/?p=820#comment-21935 My lucid dreams revolve around me being world emperor or having superpowers or having slews of beautiful slave girls etc…

I can always change the direction and frequently do, ussually to reflect a figment of imagination like 100m tall giant robots.

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